Separation Anxiety in Shih Tzu: How to avoid raising an anxious Shih Tzu

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Sep 23, 2024
Separation Anxiety in Shih Tzu

From the Divine Pups blog

Bringing a new puppy home is exciting, but leaving them alone for the first time can be a nerve-wracking experience. The good news is, with the right strategies, you can create a calm and stress-free environment for your puppy when they’re home alone. In this blog, we’ll discuss how to establish a positive routine, avoid common mistakes, and set your Divine Pup up for success when you need to leave the house.

The Importance of a Structured Routine

A well-structured routine is key to keeping your puppy calm and comfortable when left alone. By following a consistent schedule, your puppy will know what to expect each day, which can help reduce their anxiety.Ā 

Starting your puppy’s day with a calm routine is crucial. When you wake up, quietly take your puppy out for a potty break without making too much fuss. Afterward, engage them in a brief training session and a short walk to help them release energy. This not only gets your Shih Tzu puppy moving but also reinforces good behaviors, which will make it easier for them to settle down once you leave. After the training and exercise session, give your puppy breakfast in their crate or ex-pen, followed by some enrichment activities. These could include puzzle toys or interactive games that keep their mind busy and help them stay occupied for a while. This entire process sets a positive tone for the day and makes it easier for your puppy to adjust to being alone.

The Role of Confinement

Confinement can sometimes be misunderstood. Rather than restricting your puppy, it’s actually about providing them with a secure space where they feel safe. Think of it as booking a small, cozy room instead of a large, open space—it feels more comfortable and manageable. A well-conditioned crate or pen gives your puppy a sense of safety and security, especially when introduced correctly. Start by making the crate or pen a positive place for your Shih Tzu. Add soft bedding and a few of their favorite toys. Use treats and positive reinforcement to help them associate this space with comfort. Over time, they will learn to see it as their personal safe zone where they can relax and feel at ease.

Creating Calm Arrivals and Departures

How you handle leaving and returning home can significantly affect your puppy’s emotional state. When leaving, it’s important to avoid making a big fuss. If you show excitement or give too much attention, your puppy will start to associate your departures with anxiety. Instead, keep things low-key. Before you go, give your puppy enrichment toys like a stuffed Kong to keep them occupied. This helps distract them from your departure and makes the time alone more enjoyable. Equally important is how you return. When you come back home, avoid excited greetings. Wait until your puppy is calm before interacting with them. This reinforces the idea that your coming and going is not a big deal, helping them stay calm and relaxed.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

There are a few common mistakes that many new puppy owners make when it comes to leaving their dog alone. One mistake is avoiding the crate, thinking it’s cruel. However, a crate provides a secure, enclosed environment where your puppy can feel safe. Introducing the crate positively is key, and it should never be used as punishment. Another common error is responding to barking or whining when your puppy is in the crate. If you let your puppy out when they bark or whine, they will quickly learn that vocalizing gets them what they want. Instead, you should wait for them to calm down before letting them out, reinforcing that calm behavior is what earns rewards. Some owners tend to keep their puppy by their side at all times, which can create dependency. It’s important for your puppy to learn how to spend time alone. Allowing your Divine Pup short periods of independence while you’re still home helps them build confidence and prevents separation anxiety in the long run.

Enrichment for Alone Time

Providing mental stimulation is essential to keeping your Shih Tzu content when they are left alone. Interactive toys, like puzzle feeders or stuffed Kongs, can keep your puppy engaged for extended periods. These toys not only entertain but also challenge their mind, helping to tire them out. One our favorites is PawTree’s Chew bones.Ā  Another useful strategy is rotating toys regularly to keep your puppy’s interest piqued. By offering different toys each day, you prevent boredom and ensure that your puppy remains occupied and happy while you’re away.

Conclusion

Leaving your puppy home alone doesn’t have to be a stressful experience for either of you. By establishing a structured routine, introducing appropriate confinement in a positive way, and managing your arrivals and departures calmly, you can create a stress-free environment where your puppy feels secure and content. With a bit of patience and these simple strategies, your puppy will learn to be calm and confident when left alone, reducing anxiety and setting the foundation for a happy, well-adjusted adult dog. If you are ready to add a Divine Pup to your family – make sure you check out our Ready Pups page for your next best friend.

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